Family Sharing on Apple Devices
This safety setting guide covers many Apple settings for parents to be aware of. It is important for parents to be aware of these settings to better protect their children online.
Settings Available
- Setting up Family Sharing
- Getting Started
- Age Verification
- Setting up an Apple ID for your child
- Creating an Apple ID for your child
- Start a Family Group
- See if your Family Member accepted the Family Group Invitation
- Join a Family Group
- Start Sharing
- Get Help
SET UP FAMILY SHARING
Use these steps to set up Family Sharing. You can start a new family group and invite people to join, or you can join someone else's family group.
Family Sharing makes it easy for up to six people in your family to share iTunes, Apple Books, and App Store purchases, an Apple Music family subscription, and an iCloud storage plan, without sharing accounts. When the family organizer turns on purchase sharing, you can pay for family purchases with the same credit card and approve kids' spending right from a parent's device. Family Sharing also lets you share photos, a family calendar, and more to help keep everyone connected.
GET STARTED
You can be a part of only one family at a time. Here's what you need to set up Family Sharing
- An Apple ID signed in to iCloud and iTunes
- iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch with iOS 8 and later,
- or Mac with OS X Yosemite and later
- If you need to, you can create an Apple ID for your child, then add them to your family group by selecting Add Family Member
AGE VERIFICATION
Before you begin, make sure that you're using a supported payment method. You can check your payment method from your Apple ID account page or in iTunes.
To comply with child online privacy protection laws, you use the CVV, verification code sent via SMS, or security code from your payment method as part of providing your verified parental consent. If you do not have a supported payment method on file, you'll be asked to change it to a supported payment method.
After you create the child's Apple ID, you can change back to a different payment method. We would strongly advise children do not have the ability to make any purchase online without parental knowledge and consent.
SETTING UP AN APPLE ID FOR YOUR CHILD
With Family Sharing, you can create an Apple ID for a child under 13. This allows them to participate in Family Sharing and use other Apple services such as iCloud, iMessage, FaceTime, and Game Centre.
To participate in Family Sharing, all family members must have their own Apple ID.
CHILDREN UNDER 13 CAN'T AND SHOULD NOT CREATE AN APPLE ID ON THEIR OWN
However, the parent or Family Organizer can provide verified parental consent and create an Apple ID on the child's behalf in their family group. If your child already has an Apple ID, you can add it to your Family Group and update their email address, date of birth, security questions, and more.
CREATING AN APPLE ID FOR YOUR CHILD
After you add your child to your family group, they will have their own Apple ID that they can use on any Apple device. Your email address is the rescue email address for your child's account, and you can use it with the security questions you provided to reset a forgotten password.
If the child already has a Game Centre account, but not an Apple ID, you don't need to create a new account for them. Just search for their nickname instead.
ON YOUR IPHONE, IPAD, OR IPOD TOUCH
- Using iOS 10.2 or earlier, go to Settings > iCloud > Family
- For all other versions IOS 11 or IOS 12 go to Settings > [Your account] > Set up Family Sharing > Add Family Member > Create a Child Account > Next
- Enter your child's birthday and select Next. While it is important to be sure to enter the correct year of birth, we do advise that you select a different day and month, in the event of a data breach, the child's proper date of birth is not exposed
- Review the Parent Privacy Disclosure carefully before proceeding
- Enter the requested information for your payment method and select Next. If you don't have a payment method on file, you may need to add one.
- Enter your child's name, select Next,
- Now create your child's Apple ID (username@icloud.com) and select Next. Privacy again should be considered when creating a user name. We recommend not using the child's actual name, rather something easily remembered but unconnected with the child.
- Follow the onscreen instructions to set a password, choose security questions, and set up your child's account. Choose passwords and security questions that you can both will remember.
- Never use the same password or recycle old ones. If you don't use a Password Manager, now might be a good time to download one. This will manage your passwords for you, requiring you to only create and remember one strong password
- You can decide if you want to activate the Ask to Buy option, which will approve all iTunes, Apple Books, and App Store purchases initiated by your child. Remember you will be responsible for all charges to your account. Once you have decided select Next
- Fully review the Terms and Conditions before selecting Agree
START A FAMILY GROUP
One adult in the family—the family organizer—can set up Family Sharing for the group from their iPhone, iPad, iPod touch, or Mac. If you turn on purchase sharing, you'll be asked to confirm that you agree to pay for purchases initiated by the family members you invite and that you have a valid payment method on file. Valid payment methods for setting up Family Sharing include credit cards and debit cards.
ON YOUR IPHONE, IPAD, OR IPOD TOUCH – GETTING STARTED
- If you're using iOS 10.2 or earlier, go to Settings > iCloud
- Go to Settings > [Your Account]
- Now Select Set Up Family Sharing
- Select Get Started
- Follow the onscreen instructions to set up your family and invite your family members
- If you're using iOS 11 or later, choose the first feature you'd like to share with your family. Then follow the instructions to invite your family members using iMessage
ON YOUR IPHONE, IPAD, OR IPOD TOUCH – ADD A FAMILY MEMBER
- If you're using iOS 10.2 or earlier, go to Settings > iCloud > Family
- Go to Settings > [Your Account] > Family Sharing.
- Select Add Family Member
- Enter your family member's name or email address and follow the onscreen instructions
- If you're using iOS 11 or later, choose whether you'd like to send an invitation via Messages or to invite them in person. Then follow the onscreen instructions
ON YOUR MAC
- Choose Apple Menu () > System Preferences
- Select iCloud
- Then Select Manage Family
- Finally Select +, and follow the onscreen instructions
If your family member is with you, they can enter their Apple ID password on your device to accept the invitation. You can also send them an invitation, and they can accept from their device. If you have multiple Apple IDs in iTunes, you can invite each of your accounts to the group, so you can share purchases from your other Apple IDs with your family.
SEE IF YOUR FAMILY MEMBER ACCEPTED THE INVITATION
After you send the invitation, you can check its status under the person's name.
FOR IPHONE, IPAD, OR IPOD TOUCH
- If you're using iOS 10.2 or earlier, go to Settings > iCloud > Family
- Go to Settings > [Your Profile] > Family Sharing.
FOR MAC
- Choose Apple menu () > System Preferences > iCloud > Manage Family
- Select the person's name to see status of the invitation.
- If you need to resend the invitation, select Resend Invitation
JOIN A FAMILY GROUP
You can ACCEPT or DECLINE an invitation to join a family directly from your device. Invitations are received by EMAIL or in a TEXT MESSAGE. If you miss the email or text invitation, you can respond from your device Settings or System Preferences:
ON YOUR IPHONE, IPAD, OR IPOD TOUCH
- If you're using iOS 10.2 or earlier, go to Settings > iCloud > Invitations
- Go to Settings > Your Account > Invitations
ON YOUR MAC
- Select the Apple Menu () > System Preferences > iCloud > Manage Family
ACCEPTING AN INVITATION
To accept an invitation, follow the onscreen instructions.
- When you join a family, you might be asked to confirm your account information and to opt-in to any features or services your family set up
- If you can't accept the invitation, see if someone else joined a family with your Apple ID or is sharing purchased contentfrom your Apple ID
Remember, you can only join one family at a time, and you can only switch to a different family group once per year
START SHARING
After your family members join, the features of Family Sharing are set up on everyone's devices.
HERE'S WHAT YOU CAN DO:
- Download eligible music, movies, TV shows, books, and apps from the iTunes, Apple Books, and App Store.
- Get an Apple Music family subscription, then invite family members to join.
- Share family photos and videos. Open the Photos app, tap Family in the Shared tab, and add what you want to share
- Use the Family calendar. Open the Calendar app to add, view, or change events and reminders in the Family Calendar
- Share an iCloud storage plan to give everyone enough space for their photos, videos, documents, and more
- Find your family with the Find My Friends app. Choose when to share your location with your family members
- Help find family members' devices with the Find My iPhone app
- Manage your child's account, turn on Ask to Buy, or use Screen Time with Family Sharing.
- Children under 13 must join a Family Sharing group to use Game Centre
- If you don't want to share the family photo album, calendar, or reminders, UNSUBSCRIBE from them on your device, or on com
GET HELP
- Get help if you don't see your family's shared content. To share purchased content, you need to turn on Share My Purchasesand use the iTunes Store in the same country or region as your family members
- Learn how purchases work with Family Sharing
- Learn about Family Sharing
- Family Sharing requires a personal Apple ID signed in to iCloud and iTunes. If your family has purchase sharing turned on, music, movies, TV shows, and books can be downloaded on up to 10 devices per account, five of which can be computers
- iOS 8 or OS X Yosemite or later are required to set up or join a Family Sharing group. Not all content is eligible to be shared
- Content can be hidden by family members; hidden content is not available for download
- Content downloaded from family members or acquired via redemption codes is not subject to Ask to Buy